RE-Discovering Sexuality: Post Stroke

TPG’s own Lisa Meyers, LSCSW/LCSW/CST, recently facilitated a support group for young survivors at the American Stroke Foundation. The group members were engaging and wanted to learn more about sexual expectations post stroke, how to keep sexuality alive and interesting, and how to get a partner’s interest in sex to increase.

Lisa often uses Barry McCarthy's "Good Enough Sex Model" while talking with people about finding a healthy sexual life, but it is especially relative for people in rehabilitation or those living with chronic illness. "Helping people re-discover pleasure is at the core of my work, and vital for couples who have experience traumatic illness or medical issues", stated Meyers. "They need a break from all the work, doctors and grief. Connecting with your partner and your own sexuality is a return to a quality life."

Jean Brogan, KU practicum student and ASF intern stated: “I had to share that the next day (after your presentation) I ran a group at ASF.  We used the wipe board and purposefully left the pleasure wheel drawing on the board.  Questions came about and we all chimed in that it was a wonderful meeting.  One person kept staring at it smiling and occasionally would say "Boy, I missed something good"!  We all concurred.”

For more information about this wonderful organization go to Americanstroke.org   

Office Space for RENT- Plaza / Westport



Full Size Kitchen with Concrete CounterTops



 Overview:
We are a group of clinical professionals looking to invite other practitioners to share our expanded and remodeled office. We welcome other psychotherapists, but we are actively looking to recruit a psychiatrist, chiropractor, massage therapist, nurse practitioner, or physical therapist to complement our client services. We would also entertain other professionals.



Lobby Seats 8, Beverage Service & Panel TV for client education



The Basics:

Share contemporary, designer, loft-like, office space with exposed 9’ceilings, concrete floors, artwork, soothing lobby environment, music & fountain, restroom and shower. Access to conference/group room & full kitchen, wifi, & beverage service.



Private Toilet & Shower



Our Motto: 





We believe that our client services are enhanced through collaborative care and look to create a cooperative of health care professionals dedicated to holistic wellness services.

The Area:
Beautiful Plaza / Westport within walking distance to area coffee houses, boutique shops, restaurants, grocery stores and walking park at JC Nichols Fountain. Easy access to I35 and 71hwy. Close to KU/ UMKC.





 The Rooms:

Offices with Large Windows, Stained Concrete Floors & 9' Exposed Ceilings

*We also have a shared ‘Rent by the Block’ system for those with limited practices.

You:
Ideal colleague is an established or ‘newly in private practice’ entrepreneur looking to enjoy the benefits of a collaborative practice setting for referrals, case consultation, business support and growth. Finally, a candidate must be financially responsible.

Conference Room has phone & panel TV.
Seats 8 with Rustic Farm Table & Modern Leather Chairs & Contemporary Chandelier

US:
We are a group of independent practitioners; we routinely meet to support one another’s businesses both clinically and strategically. 

Tours: FREE tours arranged by request... so whatya got to loose. This is a MUST see!

Lobby Beverage Service includes Coffee, Tea & Water.
Soothing sound is provided in all common areas

You may check us out at:

http://www.turnerprofessionalgroup.com/

For more information, please call George at 816.931.8255







Includes

§         Furnished Lobby



§         Wifi Internet

§         Parking… Private dedicated parking for building

§         Webpage Listing with picture/ bio (After initial set up fee)

§         Beverage Service (Coffee, Tea, Water, Cups)

§         Kleenex

§         Office Aesthetics (Aroma Therapy & Music)



§         Use of library, Group Room, Kitchen

§         Collegial Networking               



Furnished & Unfurnished Offices Available



Full Time & PT office available



 



Conference room with 2 Garage Doors -
Opens for Workshops providing access to Full Kitchen



Benefits: 



§         No out of pocket office set up expense (furniture, decorations)

§         Furnished Wait Room

§         Flat Rate –– No %

§         Simple & Stable short-term contract for 12 months

§         No typical long term (3 & 5) year contract

George Turner, L.S.C.S.W./L.C.S.W.



















 Turner Professional Group 
4010 Washington, Suite 405 
Kansas City, MO. 64111 
816.931.8255 

Rooms are a generous size approx. 13x13. One is furnished

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Lube 101

Many women experience vaginal dryness, especially as they age. It can take women longer to become moist, causing sexual play to be uncomfortable or painful. Men also can benefit from the sensations offered from a lube. A favorite lube on the nightstand can help make sex play a little more enjoyable.

According to the CENTER FOR SEXUAL HEALTH at the University of Michigan, " adequate lubrication is an important part of positive sexual interaction." While the most readily accessible lubricant is human saliva, some people find that they need the aid of commercially available lube. It is important to note that some lubes have 'glycerin', which has been shown to increase the production of yeast and irritation in the vagina for some women. NOT FUN!!!

The wonderful world of lubes has a vast array of types and purposes. Water-based lubes are for use with condoms, since oil based lubes will cause tears....Oppps! However, water based lubes can dry out very quickly. For longer sex play you may want to try silicone lubes. But remember, DONT mix silicone lubes with silicone sex toys, it can cause the silicone in sex toys to deteriorate. Bummer! Theres lube specifcally for anal play, sex toys, personal masturbation and penis/ vagina intercourse So make it a mission ...a sexual adventure to try them all.

For a $7 Off Coupon for K-Y premimum products visit Couples Place by K-Y Brand.

Sex Facts: Your Sexual Health Consultant Takes On Common Questions

Unfortunately, most of us got little sex education as youth and the bit we got wasn't all that good! Some of the lucky got a booklet or gym class film explaining "Plumbing 101" which left us with a multitude of more questions. And lets face it, porn hasnt been the best sex education substitute. Yet, thats what the average couple uses to build their sexual lives together.

We spend more time, preparing for a hobby or researching how to stain the deck, than we do on making ourselves sexual experts. Some figure it should just be "natural" or they subscribe to the 'on-the-job training' philosophy, but thats a weak orientation at best.

There are a lot of sexual myths out there and a whole lot of just erroneous information. Our sexual experts help with providing comprehensive, medically accurate information to our patients. We are lucky to have skilled sexologists with a rich history of working with diverse groups.

Our team of sexual health experts report that its amazing how adults, when provided knowledgeable sex educators, will begin to review, adjust and evaluate a lifetime of bad sex education. Many report that having someone to consult with gave them a better sense of who they were as a sexual person and control over their sex lives.

Do you want to be a better lover? Do you need solid sex information? Do you have questions, about your sexuality? We provide our clients resources, and access to leaders in the field.

Some common questions we get asked:

1. When is it normal to lose your virginity?

The average male loses his virginity at age 16.9; females average slightly older, at 17.4. And a new study shows that genetics may be a factor: inherited traits, such as impulsivity, can make a person more or less willing to have sex at an earlier age.

Sources: Kinsey Institute; California State University

2. How can I reach orgasm every time?

While 75 percent of men always reach orgasm during sex, only 29 percent of women report the same. In addition, most women are unable to climax through vaginal intercourse, instead needing clitoral stimulation.

Source: National Health and Social Life Survey

3. How many sex partners is too many?

What's your number? According to a survey of adults aged 20 to 59, women have an average of four sex partners during their lifetime; men have an average of seven.

Source: National Center for Health Statistics

4. Do I really need to worry about an STI if Im in a relationship?

At least 50 percent of sexually active men and women will have a genital HPV infection at some point in their lives. HPV, or human papillomavirus, comes in both low- and high-risk forms; low-risk HPV can cause genital warts, and high-risk can cause cervical and other cancers. In 90 percent of cases, the body's immune system will fight off the disease within two years.

Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

5. Does size matter?

Relax, guys. No matter what those, ahem, movies might suggest, in the United States, the average erect penis is five to seven inches long, and four to six inches in circumference.

Source: Kinsey Institute

6. How come I cant keep it hard?

Approximately 5 percent of 40-year-old men and between 15 to 25 percent of 65-year-old men experience erectile dysfunction.

Source: National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases

From Fizzle to FABULOUS: Sex therapy can be just the ticket!

Couples will often ask, "just how important is sex?" and my standard reply is,  "not very...UNLESS your're not getting any! Then it can be really sticky thorn in your relationship" Our physical and emotional intimacy needs are important and need to be nurtured for a healthy relationship to flourish. Yet, there are many challenges to a healthy sex life.

Couples come into our office often complaining that their sex life has fizzled. Better sex is possible and we have the answers! Theres some great ways to bring the romance back to the bedroom and therapy can be the first step. Just initiating the conversation can be a scarry obstacle. A trained sex therapist can help you navigate the challenges of a sometimes embarrassing conversation. For some 'self help' tips try these ideas:

1) Love Nest Make Over: Keep the bedroom sexy and free from clutter. Piles of clothes are not just a "to do" list, but are a Romance Turn OFF! The bedroom should be a sanctuary for relaxation, sharing, safety and sassiness. PS... get rid of the TV!!!

2) Hug to relax and reconnect. This simple act can really be the bridge for a couple to bond after a hectic day. We need physical touch and hugging is a simple 'no sex demand' activity that allows couples to reaffirm there union. A 3 minute hug can be powerful... Try it!

For more tips and a great 10 day "Boot Camp" guide check out the intimacy experiement and see how you and your snuggle bunny do. There's some great tips to try on your own.