Showing posts with label sex therapy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex therapy. Show all posts

Friday, April 18, 2014

Guest Blog: Clitorodynia, say what? Klit-or-oh-di-knee-uhhhhh


Clitorodynia, say what? Klit-or-oh-di-knee-uhhhhh
Yes, it is a mouthful, and sounds something like a prehistoric animal.  But,  it is a very disturbing condition that many women suffer from and it is often mis-diagnosed or mis-treated. The clitoris is a powerful organ of sexual pleasure. The tip has thousands of sensory nerve endings, more than any other body part.  Women by design,  have  greater blood supply to the pelvic area. The clitoris provides the means of having multiple (or any) orgasms. Women’s sexual response has unfortuantely been defined by male standards, making our understanding of the clitoris and its function inadequate.  Too often women come to see us and say “I am really not very familiar with that area”.
Clitorodynia is a subset of pelvic pain in which pain is centered around the clitoris. It can be burning, sharp or dull pain that often limits clothing choices, time in sitting, biking and sex, of course!  The big question on our patients tongues is WHY WHY WHY???  There is often no particular injury that causes this condition.  It is likely irritation, compression or injury to the Pudendal nerve and particularly its branch called the Dorsal Nerve of the Clitoris. The dorsal nerve of the clitoris provides sensation to this structure.  When the nerve is held under tension, compression or injured directly it can be very painful.
dorsal nerve of the clitoris

This is a great illustration showing the nerves to the perineum and pelvis and you can see the Dorsal Clitoral nerve, as well as the Pudendal nerve and their path.  Nerves love movement. When you have tension in the muscles, tissues and fascia nerves are not allowed to glide and move as they are designed to and they become irritated.  As well, if you have chronic inflammation from chronic pain this affects nerves in a similar way, by irritating them with the inflammatory “soup” that becomes trapped in your tissues. Nerves also love blood flow.  Again, if you have muscle tension and tissue restrictions you do not have good blood flow.  As such, in chronic pain conditions blood flow is also poor. Activities such as biking, or professions which require long periods of sitting can reduce circulation to the perineum and aggravate the condition.  Nerves also love space. They are designed beautifully in fantastic canals of fascia and connective tissue. When these spaces are compromised, your nerves are not happy.  When you restore blood flow, movement, and give them back their space, the pain and irritation settle down.  The next question on our patients tongues is HOW do we do this?
There are many medications that your physician may prescribe to help with this pain. I am not a physician and so I will not discuss these in this blog. My experience with these drugs has been that they dull the pain to allow a patient to function at some level, but leave side effects to deal with. Medication DOES NOT address the cause of the nerve irritation, it simply treats the symptom. Other medical treatments that can be helpful are pudendal nerve injections and topical pain relievers.
Behavior Modification Therapy with a certified sex therapist can be tremendously helpful. Because the painful clitoris affects sexual function, and the brain is the primary organ for sex, a psychologist or licensed counselor who has experience with sexual disorders/pain syndromes is very important in your treatment.  When this goes on for months/years, there are often relationship issues that need to be addressed.  Stress is a significant trigger for this pain and counseling is a great way to learn better management techniques. Dealing with vulvar (that’s a fancy word for your external genital area) pain can feel embarrassing, limit your social activities and your relationships. If you have to take medications the side effects can cause problems and the stress of this builds in anyone. It is very important to manage this.
Physical Therapy (my turn!) is a great treatment for clitorodynia. Physical therapists are experts in nerve tension, compression, injury and rehabilitation for these painful structures. A pelvic physical therapist can palpate the pudendal nerve as it travels through the Pudendal canal (also called Alcock’s canal). They can palpate the muscles within the pelvic floor that house the superficial branches of this nerve to determine if they hold too much muscle tension or painful trigger points.  They can help you modify activities or exercise programs to better fit your needs an not aggravate your condition.  Plus we love to educate!  We will spend most of our time educating you regarding the anatomy and function of this area so that you can confidently return to healthy, pain free lifestyle.  At our sessions we will perform some manual therapy releasing tight muscles and tissues vaginally.  We will often use biofeedback as a tool to teach you how to relax these muscles using various techniques.  We will teach you to release these muscles vaginally through teaching a spouse or significant other, or use of  dilators or a tool called a crystal wand.  We teach deep breathing and relaxation techniques. We teach posture and body mechanics and how to modify these to reduce irritation to the involved tissues. We will also discuss sexual positions that may be more comfortable and less irritating.
The take home message is, please don’t let this very treatable condition go because it is embarrassing, or uncomfortable to discuss.  Be comfortable with your body.  I examine this area daily on many different women. The clitoris is a body part, just as equal (but definitely more sensitive) to the arm, elbow or wrist.  It was designed beautifully and serves a very important function.  There are answers, and if at first you do not find them in your first doctor you see, try and try again!  If you are reading this you are already on the right track!  Find a physical therapist who specializes in pelvic dysfunction, or a physician who specializes in pelvic pain, or a sex therapist. Each of these practitioners should have one of the other specialties that they refer to, or work alongside to help you find the right answer for you.
–Sarah Dominguez, PT, MSPT, CLT

Thursday, September 13, 2012

KU intern, Amy Gray, joins Turner Professional Group



Amy Gray, KU Intern
Amy Gray is an intern at Turner Professional Group specializing in individual and couples work. Ms. Gray has experience working with families, runaway and homeless youth, and HIV+ youth. Ms. Gray has a Masters degree in clinical and counseling psychology from Central Missouri State University and is currently working toward a Master of Social Welfare at the University of Kansas. In her free time, Ms. Gray enjoys coaching youth softball, kayaking, taking photographs, and spending quality time with her many nieces and nephews.

"Amy has a great personality and a genuine desire to help people. She promises to be a great asset to our practice and our clients," stated Dr. George Turner, her clinical supervisor. Dr. Turner oversees all interns at Turner Professional Group meeting to discuss cases, provide guidance and augment each student intern's clinical skills. "This is a great way for clients to receive stellar service at an affordable price. We are so glad we can give back to the community in this way," added Dr. Turner.  In addition to seeing clients, Ms. Gray will help facilitate a women's "Healthy Sex" group with Lisa Meyers, LSCSW/LCSW a co-owner at TPG. Ms Gray is also interested in research on sexual health and will be organizing several projects for TGP including a future conference presentation.

Welcome Amy~!

Ms Gray is accepting new clients and can see people for FREE or reduced fee.

Please contact Amy at:
Phone: (816) 931-8255
Email: intern2@turnerprofessionalgroup.com


Friday, August 12, 2011

Turner Professional Group Partners with New Psychotherapist: Mary Bradley

Mary Bradley, LSCSW/LCSW
What an exciting week... GREAT professionals keep joining our holistic practice. Turner Professional Group is excited to announce that Mary Bradley, LSCSW/LCSW is beginning private practice, starting Monday August 15th. What a fabulous way to end the week! Please help us 'Welcome' her to our space! Mary comes to us with a wealth of clinical and life experience that is sure to benefit our patients. Mary has an easy-going, serenity about her that informs her work and makes for a relaxing therapeutic environment.

Mary has a Master’s in Social Work from the University of Kansas (2005), and is clinically licensed in both Kansas and Missouri.  She has had the opportunity to work with individual and families as a medical social worker in hospice and home health care. More recently, she had the privilege of providing social work services to refugees from war-torn countries and human trafficking victims.  Mary has provided caregiver education, stress reduction and mental health education for seniors at the Landon Center on Aging (KUMC) and throughout the community.  She also has worked with HIV-positive women and survivors of domestic violence. Mary’s therapy practice specialties include: healing trauma, addiction therapy, grief and loss, and depression and anxiety.  She works with adults (including seniors and caregivers), children and couples in therapy to realize and respect one’s core self, and to resolve issues that impede one’s life satisfaction and functioning.

Mary can be reached at (913) 710-9480.  E-mail her at mbradleytherapy@gmail.com.

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

From Fizzle to FABULOUS: Sex therapy can be just the ticket!

Couples will often ask, "just how important is sex?" and my standard reply is,  "not very...UNLESS your're not getting any! Then it can be really sticky thorn in your relationship" Our physical and emotional intimacy needs are important and need to be nurtured for a healthy relationship to flourish. Yet, there are many challenges to a healthy sex life.

Couples come into our office often complaining that their sex life has fizzled. Better sex is possible and we have the answers! Theres some great ways to bring the romance back to the bedroom and therapy can be the first step. Just initiating the conversation can be a scarry obstacle. A trained sex therapist can help you navigate the challenges of a sometimes embarrassing conversation. For some 'self help' tips try these ideas:
1) Love Nest Make Over: Keep the bedroom sexy and free from clutter. Piles of clothes are not just a "to do" list, but are a Romance Turn OFF! The bedroom should be a sanctuary for relaxation, sharing, safety and sassiness. PS... get rid of the TV!!!

2) Hug to relax and reconnect. This simple act can really be the bridge for a couple to bond after a hectic day. We need physical touch and hugging is a simple 'no sex demand' activity that allows couples to reaffirm there union. A 3 minute hug can be powerful... Try it!

For more tips and a great 10 day "Boot Camp" guide check out the intimacy experiement and see how you and your snuggle bunny do. There's some great tips to try on your own.