HOTTT Summer Sizzlin' Sex Treats

The kids Slip-n-Slide just got
a whole lot more interesting!

The heat is on and not in a good way. Its HOT out there and folks are sluggish, cranky and just tired of these high temps. Along with other areas of your life, feeling miserable can take a toil on your sex life. We wanna here your summer time ideas on how to be "sweaty", "sultry", and "sticky" in all the right ways. Don't let your sex life go cold in all this heat, have some fun and treat yourself. What else ya going to do with that box of Popsicles in the frig? Post on our Face Book or comment here. Share those Sassy Ideas and inspire yourself!!!!

To get your creative juices (and others flowing) Click here for some sensational summer-time treats.



TEN of the Best Things You Can Do for Your Sexual Self (at Any Age)

Burlesque at the Zoo Bar, Lincoln, NE

Recently Lisa and I visited a Burlesque show in Lincoln, NE at The Zoo Bar. We loved it! It was such a positive expression of women. Real women of every size and shape strutting thier erotic self to thier own music. Powerful to see, but even more powerful if you live it!

But how do you find that elusive sense of sexual pride and confidence? Wheres that little pill that makes you not afraid of sex in the light, or the nudist beach? How do you learn to love yourself, your body and sex without shame, nor guilt? Well like most of life the answer is NOT in a little pill nor is it a destination. Here are a few tips to ponder along the journey...

1. Be your own your first partner, before anyone else.
2. Learn to talk openly about sex.
3. Be honest. For real.
4. Ditch the drama. Save it for the movies.
5. Use and trust your own best judgment.
6. Respect your body and yourself.
7. Honor your feelings, even when it's a bummer.
8. Be your whole self, not just your sexual self.
9. Further your sexual education.
10. Enjoy yourself and your sexuality.

Check out Scarleteen for a detailed exploration of this list