On The Couch with Turner Professional Group

George Turner, certified sex therapist, speaks at PFLAG: Coming Out: A Journey of Worthiness

2011-10-01T10:19:00.000-07:00

George Turner, LSCSW/LCSW, certified sex therapist at Turner Professional Group, (www.turnerprofessionalgroup.com) will present Coming Out: A Journey of Worthiness at the next PFLAG program on Oct. 9, 3pm at Village Presbyterian Church. Coming Out is a life-changing and life-long journey that begins when you first realize that you are gay, lesbian bisexual, or transgender… and utter the possibility of being LGBT to yourself. The act of coming out of the closet is not a single event but rather has many acts; and it is also a journey that our straight allies travel. For allies, coming out and defending LGBT persons can be just as difficult.

George shares that learning to live OUT is a process often clouded with shame. Removing that mask of shame and giving voice to your true authentic self is often traveled in incremental steps forward with painful retreats backwards. George will explore how coming out is but one journey that is essentially the universal search for worthiness; a desire to be valued, respected and loved! Participants both LGBT persons and their allies will learn about the coming out process; and most importantly both seasoned travelers and those just beginning their journey will enrich their journey by learning how to better deal with the unique challenges faced in their adventure.

George is a leading sexual health consultant, educator and clinician. He works with both couples and individuals in the areas of relationship enhancement, sexual health and personal wellness. George has
developed a spa-like, holistic wellness center where leading therapists, trainers and consultants guide clients to design personal and professional growth. Additionally, his team provides consultation to school districts and non-profits on topics such as: diversity, team building, and strategic plan-ning. George’s expertise in comprehensive, positive sexuality allows him to help people with diverse issues such as: infertility, erection dysfunction, painful intercourse, premature ejaculation, coming out, fantasy negotiations, menopause, and infidelity.

George welcomes the PFLAG family to take advantage of a FREE phone consultation. You can contact him or his team at: 816.931.8255 or by email: George@turnerprofessionalgroup.com. His office located on the Plaza/ Westport area is convenient to the entire metro area.

A Place to Find Support & Acceptance
PFLAG-KC general meetings are held on the second Sunday of each month at 3:00pm at The Village Presbyterian Church, 6641 Mission Road, Room 307 (enter SE door), Prairie Village KS 66208, 913.262.4200.The meeting rooms are wheelchair accessible. PFLAG-KC board meetings are held at 1:30pm before the general meeting. Everyone is welcome to attend and add their ideas.

Meetings are all inclusive & non-denominational.

For more information call our help line: 816.765.9818.

Write us at:

PFLAG-KC
PO Box 414101
Kansas City MO 64141
www.pflagkc.org
pflagkc@pflagkc.org

Clinical Intern Joins Turner Professional Group

2011-08-22T10:30:00.000-07:00

Its back to school time and we are thrilled to welcome our new intern, Courtney Kivett.

Courtney shared, "Im very excited to be an intern at Turner Professional Group while working on my Masters degree in Social Work. After spending a year working in adult mental health, I'm eager to begin mytransition into the realm of counseling and human sexuality". Courtney has interests in many aspects of human sexuality, including sexual dysfunction, intimacy issues, sexuality and disability, and sex education. After graduating with her Masters of Social Work (Washburn University, Topeka, KS -Expected May 2012), Courtney plans on completing her PhD in Human Sexuality at Widener University and practicing sex therapy in the Kansas City Metro Area.

Interns at Turner Professional Group are supervised by seasoned clinical staff and meet routinely with to discuss cases and receive feedback from a licensed therapist. A huge benefit to clients is that interns are able to offer clients free or reduced fee sessions while completing clinical coursework.

Courtney is available to speak at your group on a variety of clinical topics and she host a weekly clinical group for clients seeking support. Please call or email her for more information:

ADDRESS:
4010 Washington, Suite 405
Kansas City, MO. 64110

PHONE:
(816) 931.8255

EMAIL
intern@turnerprofessionalgroup.com

WEB:
www.turnerprofessionalgroup.com

Turner Professional Group Partners with New Psychotherapist: Mary Bradley

2011-08-12T14:35:00.000-07:00

Mary Bradley, LSCSW/LCSW

What an exciting week... GREAT professionals keep joining our holistic practice. Turner Professional Group is excited to announce that Mary Bradley, LSCSW/LCSW is beginning private practice, starting Monday August 15th. What a fabulous way to end the week! Please help us 'Welcome' her to our space! Mary comes to us with a wealth of clinical and life experience that is sure to benefit our patients. Mary has an easy-going, serenity about her that informs her work and makes for a relaxing therapeutic environment.

Mary has a Master’s in Social Work from the University of Kansas (2005), and is clinically licensed in both Kansas and Missouri. She has had the opportunity to work with individual and families as a medical social worker in hospice and home health care. More recently, she had the privilege of providing social work services to refugees from war-torn countries and human trafficking victims. Mary has provided caregiver education, stress reduction and mental health education for seniors at the Landon Center on Aging (KUMC) and throughout the community. She also has worked with HIV-positive women and survivors of domestic violence. Mary’s therapy practice specialties include: healing trauma, addiction therapy, grief and loss, and depression and anxiety. She works with adults (including seniors and caregivers), children and couples in therapy to realize and respect one’s core self, and to resolve issues that impede one’s life satisfaction and functioning.

Mary can be reached at (913) 710-9480. E-mail her at mbradleytherapy@gmail.com.

Turner Professional Group now offers massage by Tovah's Therapeutic Bodywork

2011-08-10T09:04:00.000-07:00

Good nutrition, exercise, plenty of rest... and massage are becoming more of a staple for many of our patients approach to good health. Its often one of the things we recommend to patients who are facing chronic stress. Stress interferes with concentration, impacts physical health and puts romantic relationships at risk. A massage therapist can be a great addition to a comprehensive wellness team.

Its with great pleasure that we welcome Tovah Kincaid to Turner Professional Group. It has long been our dream to have a bodyworker on site for our patients. Tovah's calming voice and gentle presence are a step towards total relaxation.

Tovah is a National Licensed Accredited Massage Therapist, in Kansas City, Mo and a member of the Associate Bodywork Massage Professionals. She has been in practice for 5 years, graduating top of her class in 2006 from Anthem College (formerly High Tech Institute) obtaining an Associates Degree in Applied Science. She was a lead therapist at Massage Heights for a year, where she worked in the spa industry before working with Northcare Hospice as a therapist. Tovah, states, "Both experiences has made me a well rounded professional and massage therapist who listens to client expectations. I customize rejuvenating massage to meet client needs. As a result of my customer service and skill, a high percentage of my business is from repeat clients a referrals."

Tovah offers a variety of massage modalities including:

Therapeutic Bodywork,
Swedish Massage,
Trigger Point Therapy,
Sports Massage,
Chair Massage,
Deep Tissue Massage,
Reflexology, and
Prenatal Massage

Give Tovah a call and inverst in yourself. Also, massage is an excellent gift idea for family and friends.

Tovah Kincaid,LMT
816-974-6131
www.tovah.massagetherapy.com

Spiritual Makeovers: Turner Professional Group partners with new practitioner, Carrah Quigley

2011-08-09T14:36:00.000-07:00

We want to extend a very warm 'welcome' to Carrah Quigley. She now offices at TPG and offers a unique and fascinating new service, 'Spiritual Makeovers'. With her fire-red hair, penchant for fashion, and what my Mom use to describe as the 'gift of gab', Carrah is a warm and charismatic spirit who immediately places a person at ease. Somewhere between a hip gal next door and a spiritual facilitator, Carrah seems to be that perfect balance of a listener and guide.

Our patients are unique and complicated people. We strive to honor and incorporate the religious beliefs and spiritual practices of our patients. Adding Carrah's speciality as a religious expert and spiritual leader fits our holistic health model and will benefit our patients immensely. For many of our patients their belief system is a critical part of their life, celebrating that aspect of our patients just makes sense. I see Carrah helping clients who come to TPG for therapy but struggle with aspects of their 'religion of origin'... that religious teaching from their youth. Though they may not practice their faith, patients of ours can have painful leftovers or misinformation about their faith that hinders their wellness journey.

Carrah Quigley,
Spiritual Counselor &
Life Coach

Since the age of 17, Carrah has explored the different religions of the world and how they deeply inform personal faith. Throughout her travels and experience in different religious environments she has accumulated a wealth of knowledge both academic and personal. As a spiritual counselor devoted to helping others, she aides others in creating a spiritual life that is fulfilling and uniquely crafted to meet their personal needs, what she calls, “Spiritual Makeovers.” Over the last ten years, her awareness has also turned to helping those inflicted with spiritual wounds. With her academic knowledge and intuitive counseling she provides a deeper understanding of how to heal wounds without abandoning faith. She holds a Masterʼs Degree, with distinction, in Ecumenics from Trinity College Dublin, Ireland and a Bachelorʼs in Religious Studies from University of Arizona. She studied at Union Theological Seminary in New York and completed graduate courses in the History of Islam and Christianity at UMKC and Conflict Resolution Studies in Belfast, Northern Ireland. She is currently studying to become a Certified Spiritual Counselor through the American Institute of Health Care Professionals.

Services Include:

Crafting a Personal Spiritual Practice
Deepening your already existing faith
Healing from Spiritual Wounds
Re-imagining the God image
Learning how to Meditate
Forgiving & Finding Closure
Inquiring about other faiths & God
Negotiating blended faiths

To make an appointment or for questions, you can contact Carrah at: (816) 506-6714

Carrah Quigley, Spiritual Life Coach and Spiritual Counselor

Deepening - Growing - Learning - Healing - Empowering Spiritual Health for total well-being

HOTTT Summer Sizzlin' Sex Treats

2011-08-02T09:09:00.000-07:00

The kids Slip-n-Slide just got
a whole lot more interesting!

The heat is on and not in a good way. Its HOT out there and folks are sluggish, cranky and just tired of these high temps. Along with other areas of your life, feeling miserable can take a toil on your sex life. We wanna here your summer time ideas on how to be "sweaty", "sultry", and "sticky" in all the right ways. Don't let your sex life go cold in all this heat, have some fun and treat yourself. What else ya going to do with that box of Popsicles in the frig? Post on our Face Book or comment here. Share those Sassy Ideas and inspire yourself!!!!

To get your creative juices (and others flowing) Click here for some sensational summer-time treats.

Circumcision: Could You Be Dulling Future Sexual Pleasure?

2011-08-01T14:33:00.000-07:00

Why is circumcision such a hot topic in today's Parenting Circles...
two words: Foreskin Restoration@

Recently a patient walked in wanting to discuss 'Foreskin Restoration'. Essentially he was grieving the loss of his foreskin. He had a "cut" penis... meaning he had no foreskin. He was exploring methods to restore this part of his genetalia. Part of his therapy request was also focused on anger towards his parents for "mutalating his manhood" (his words), negotiating this journey with his sexual partner and becoming more educated about it himself. In short, he had lots of things on his plate that most likey were never considered by his parents. But this has become a much more 'talked about' topic for parents today. Its even making the news.

Our own therapist, Lisa Meyers, recently shared some of her own journey towards understanding this topic. She shared, "Parents, educate yourselves, talk about it, and make an informed choice for your boy children. I will never forget when I learned that my brother and his then wife were choosing not to circumcise my nephew. At the time I remember asking how they came to that decision and not really understanding why they would not want him to look like everyone else. Seven years and much education later for me, I am so glad they stuck to their choice for him despite pressure from most people around them. I was misinformed. I had bought into the societal stereotype that penises MUST look a certain way. Plain and simple, I was wrong. But dont take my word... check out a recent article on the topic."

Jessica Kramer states, "Conversations about circumcision are really important. As I strongly recommend women become fully informed when pregnant and giving birth - that they fully understand the implication of all the choices they make - I strongly recommend parents do the same with regard to circumcision." Her recent blog on Betty Dodson's website offers some additional interesting points for your considertation.

TEN of the Best Things You Can Do for Your Sexual Self (at Any Age)

2011-07-18T15:45:00.000-07:00

Burlesque at the Zoo Bar, Lincoln, NE

Recently Lisa and I visited a Burlesque show in Lincoln, NE at The Zoo Bar. We loved it! It was such a positive expression of women. Real women of every size and shape strutting thier erotic self to thier own music. Powerful to see, but even more powerful if you live it!

But how do you find that elusive sense of sexual pride and confidence? Wheres that little pill that makes you not afraid of sex in the light, or the nudist beach? How do you learn to love yourself, your body and sex without shame, nor guilt? Well like most of life the answer is NOT in a little pill nor is it a destination. Here are a few tips to ponder along the journey...

1. Be your own your first partner, before anyone else.
2. Learn to talk openly about sex.
3. Be honest. For real.
4. Ditch the drama. Save it for the movies.
5. Use and trust your own best judgment.
6. Respect your body and yourself.
7. Honor your feelings, even when it's a bummer.
8. Be your whole self, not just your sexual self.
9. Further your sexual education.
10. Enjoy yourself and your sexuality.

Check out Scarleteen for a detailed exploration of this list

Let Your Erotic Flag Fly

2011-07-12T12:43:00.000-07:00

As a holistic practice we explore and honer our patients, religious and spiritual journeys. Often our patients share thier experience with some sort of disconnect with their faith; sometimes this is in relation to past sexual trauma or sexual dysfunction. Other times it is difficulty connecting thier understanding of a divine OTHER and a healthy expression of thier sexualtiy. This can be due to a lifetime of messages based on guilt and shame. Exploring a person's beliefs and values is essential to a balanced and integrative sexuality. Turner Professional Group has invited guest blogger, Carrah Quigley, to share her insight and expertise as a guest blogger on spirituality.

Lately, I have been thinking about poet, Audre Lorde and her understanding of what the word erotic meant: “When I speak of the erotic, then, I speak of it as an assertion of the lifeforce of women; of that creative energy empowered, the knowledge and use of which we are now reclaiming in our language, our history, our dancing, our work, our lives.” Audre’s understanding of the erotic had nothing to do with pornography or overt sexuality. It had to do with “lifeforce,” that slight electrical charge we have when we are centered, empowered and content. I also believe that this is not exclusively for women, but for all people to experience. The erotic, as defined here, is about taking your full self out into the world with confidence - the kind of empowerment which inspires others.

Maccu Picchu, Peru

As a spiritual counselor, Carrah aides others increating a spiritual life that is fulfilling and uniquely crafted to meet their personal needs,what she calls, “Spiritual Makeovers.” Over the last ten years, her awareness has alsoturned to helping those inflicted with spiritual wounds. With her academic knowledgeand intuitive counseling she provides a deeper understanding of how to heal wounds without abandoning faith. She holds a Master's Degreewith distinction, in Ecumenics from Trinity College Dublin, Ireland and a Bachelor's in Religious Studies from University of Arizona. She studied at Union Theological Seminary in New York and completed graduate courses in the History of Islam and Christianity at UMKC and Conflict Resolution Studies in Belfast, Northern Ireland. She is currently studying to become a Certified Spiritual Counselor through the American Institute of Health Care Professionals .

There are subtle ways in which we shut down parts of ourselves when we enter certain environments. We may feel that people will only accept parts of who we are - that if they knew the “real” us or the “whole” story they would reject us or judge us. If we believe we are to fracture ourselves into sex life - business life - married life - parent life - son/daughter life, then how will we ever feel whole? Why do we invest so heavily in believing we will be shunned rather than expecting to be embraced?
What would happen if we connected together all of our separate selves and lived as full beings with our electric “lifeforce?” With nothing to hide and nothing to keep secret, would we be less stressed, less confined and more available to those around us? What is holding us back from living with “erotic power,” as Audre Lorde defines it? What would happen if we refused to hide and lived with all of our quirks and burps on the outside, readily available for view?

I believe this form of keeping secrets, fracturing, leads to distortion and destruction in our lives. Whatever it is that we hide or conceal from others is in direct proportion to how much we hide (or wish to hide) from our own consciousness. It is not so much that people will reject us, but that we have already rejected parts of who we are ourselves. I move that we begin to take small risks in opening these parts up to our friends and family; to move fully and boldly through the world without the exhausting methods of concealment and secrecy.

To conclude, I will once again refer to Miss Lorde and her wisdom, “Another important way in which the erotic connection functions is the open and fearless underlining of my capacity for joy. In the way my body stretches to music and opens into response, hearkening to its deepest rhythms, so every level upon which I sense also opens to the erotically satisfying experience, whether it is dancing, building a book- case, writing a poem, examining an idea.” Amen, Audre. May we all have the courage to fully express our fullest selves and to embrace our life force, to touch others and get that chain reaction total acceptance spread around the world. Joy is waiting.

- Carrah

Lisa Meyers, sex therapist, visits the Big Apple and meets Betty Dodson sexolgist pioneer

2011-07-08T12:14:00.000-07:00

I recently went to New Your City to visit with one of the biggies in the sexology world, Betty Dodson, PhD. I had the opportunity to invite several human sexuality classmates from Widener University as well as my 77 year old cousin who is experiencing a rebirth of her own sexuality as a senior. We spent two and a half hours in the space where Betty has conducted individual sex coaching and her body sex workshops for the past 25 years. It was thrilling to talk with her about our field, the strides toward positive sexuality and pleasure, as well as how far we still have to go. I will never forget her telling us not to be afraid to “break the rules” and get people the help they need to enjoy sexual health and wellness!

I asked the others if they would be interested in contributing their own experiences of this day as guest bloggers, and here is the first entry from my friend, Rebecca:

Left to right:

Rebecca, Lisa Meyers, Kim, Kira,

Betty Dodson, PhD, Jina, Ben

Recently, I had the utmost honor of sitting at the feet of one of my heroes. This was easy to do, not only because she had floor pillows laid in an intentional yet comfortable circle, but because her doors were open and she was incredibly welcoming. When you've given as many people orgasms as 82 year-old pleasure-activist Betty Dodson has, you can really take a day off here and there. But Dodson and her business partner Carlin Ross don't seem to have any intention of slowing down their pace. The two of them regaled us with stories about male ego-stroking, giggled over throwing "whore" signs to one another, classified 70 as the new youth of old age, and casually discussed talking to google about getting a new "sex education" search term together so that education-seekers didn't get lumped in with the porn-seekers. It was a sunny living room brimmed with potential and a strange sort of familiarity and I never wanted our two-hours to be up. Yet, even when it was, leaving felt natural, as if hugging a friend you would soon get coffee with again. The visit, organized by Lisa Meyers of Turner Professional Group, was an inspiring chance to see the bravada of a women who has never stopped doing it her way; the kind of woman I strive to be and remain.

--rebecca

How do you raise GREAT men?

2011-06-06T08:34:00.000-07:00

"Little boys dont cry!", "Man up!", "Be a big boy!"... STRIKE these shaming messages from your vocabulary! Why would we want to raise emotionally damaged or stunted men? Give your boys a healthy balance and teach them to tap into thier emotions. Their future partners will thank you for a a lover who has a rich range of expression and a deep capacity for communicaiton.

On this morning's Today Show, they offered Five Tips on HOW to raise boys to become GREAT men:

How are you feeling? We are more apt to ask girls how they are feeling. Get in the habit of asking boys the same to help them explore their emotion. Giving boys a toolbox of emotions beyond 'anger' is an important parenting task.
Expand Empathy. Encourage your boys to read fiction and ask them to report on what happens to the charater. Research shows that tracking this develops empathy. Also, playing the "What IF game" helps. To play the game, note a person like a ball player under stress and ask your boy, "How would that preasure make you feel?"

Strengthen Sense of Self. Dont use the label, "Boys will be boys", because it gives boys a negative label and sets expectations low for boys to use as an excuse for bad behavior. Furthermore, praise EFFORTS not just talents. Let boys know that you are proud of thier time spent studying and practicing, not just for winning!
Model Respect: Boys will pattern their respect of others after parents demonstration. Show them 'real world' examples of respect for others. Remember to 'walk the walk'!
Show Affection: Recognize that as youth age they may pull away from the 'mom smooches', but timing is important. So dont remove all they affection, but just learn 'when' and 'how much' to shower on your lil' man.

Parents Coming Out to Their Kids

2011-06-05T15:14:00.000-07:00

Parents who come after having kids often need additional support. Here are few resources:

Parents 'coming out' to thier kids may be challenging for some.

A. Curve Magazine

B. Colage

"The first thing to note is that it is really terrific that you are taking time to consider how to sensitively approach coming out to your kids.* Here at COLAGE we have found that as children, we really want to know the truth about our parents’ sexual orientation, and usually we have some idea before you even tell us! But just because we want to know doesn’t mean that we always are thrilled about the situation, especially initially. It can signify a big change in the family, especially when accompanied with all the transitions that come with a divorce or break-up. Here are some tips to keep in mind that might help:

It’s never too early to come out to your child/ren. Kids understand love. What they don’t understand is deception or hiding. And it’s never too late to come out to your child. COLAGE has met folks in their forties whose parents are just now coming out to them. A lot of mysteries are being solved, and missing puzzle pieces falling into place for these families. Often knowing the truth will be a relief for kids of all ages.

1. Tell your child/ren in a private space where the conversation can’t be overheard and will be completely confidential. Telling them at your regular Saturday night dinner at your favorite restaurant will be overwhelming."

C. List of Books for Kids of Gay Parents

For Children Of A Gay Parent.

*Coping When A Parent Is Gay. Deborah A Miller, Ph D
*There's Something I've been Meaning To Tell You. Laralee Pike.

D. Other Helpful Books

Gay Help Books For Parents, Friends And Families Of Gay,
Lesbian And Bisexual Children

* Family Secrets: Gay Sons – A Mother’s Story Jean M Baker. Haworth Press, 1997
*How Homophobia Hurts Children: Nurturing Diversity at Home and at School Jean Baker. Harrington Park Press, 2002
*Straight Parents, Gay Children: Keeping Families Together
Robert A Bernstein, Thunder’s Mouth Press, 1995
*Straight Parents, Gay Children: Inspiring Families to Live Honestly and with Pride Robert Bernstein, Thunder’s Mouth Press, 2003
*Family Outing Chastity Bono. Little, Brown and Company, 1999
*Adolescence: A Guide For Parents Michael Carr-Gregg and Erin Shale. Shale Finch Publishing, 2002
*Loving Someone Gay D Clark. Celestial Arts, 1997
*Our Daughter Martha: A Family Struggles with Coming Out Marcy Clements Henrickson. Pilgrim Press, 2001
*A Mother Looks at the Gay Child Jesse Davis. New Falcon Publications, 1997
*Love, Ellen: A Mother/Daughter Journey Betty Degeneres. Quill, 2000
*Now That You Know Betty Fairchild and Nancy Hayward. Harvest Books, 1998
*Not Like Other Boys: Growing Up Gay – A Mother and Son Look Back Marlene Fanta Shyer and Christopher Shyer. Alyson Books, 1997
*Coming Out, Coming Home Joan Golding and Peter Wood. Spectrum, 1998
*Out of the Twilight: Father’s of Gay Men Speak Andrew Gottlieb. Haworth Press, 2000
*Beyond Acceptance: Parents of Lesbians and Gays Talk About Their Experiences Griffen et al. St Martin’s Press, 1997
*Is it a Choice? Eric Marcus. Harper San Francisco, 1999
*What if Someone I Know Is Gay? Eric Marcus. Price Stern Sloan Publications, 2000
*My Child is Gay Bryce McDougall (ed). Independent Publishers Group, 1998
*Different Daughters: A Book by Mothers of Lesbians Louise Rafkin (ED). Cleis Press, 2001
*Out of the Closet, Into Our Hearts: Celebrating Our Gay/Lesbian Family Members
Laura Siegel and Nancy Lamkin Olson. Leyland Publications, 2001
*Coming Out As Parents: You and Your Homosexual Child David K Switzer. Westminster John Knox Press, 1997
*Friends and Family: True Stories of Gay America’s Straight Allies Dan Woog. Alyson Books, 1999

RE-Discovering Sexuality: Post Stroke

2011-05-22T08:27:00.000-07:00

TPG’s own Lisa Meyers, LSCSW/LCSW/CST, recently facilitated a support group for young survivors at the American Stroke Foundation. The group members were engaging and wanted to learn more about sexual expectations post stroke, how to keep sexuality alive and interesting, and how to get a partner’s interest in sex to increase.

Lisa often uses Barry McCarthy's "Good Enough Sex Model" while talking with people about finding a healthy sexual life, but it is especially relative for people in rehabilitation or those living with chronic illness. "Helping people re-discover pleasure is at the core of my work, and vital for couples who have experience traumatic illness or medical issues", stated Meyers. "They need a break from all the work, doctors and grief. Connecting with your partner and your own sexuality is a return to a quality life."

Jean Brogan, KU practicum student and ASF intern stated: “I had to share that the next day (after your presentation) I ran a group at ASF. We used the wipe board and purposefully left the pleasure wheel drawing on the board. Questions came about and we all chimed in that it was a wonderful meeting. One person kept staring at it smiling and occasionally would say "Boy, I missed something good"! We all concurred.”

For more information about this wonderful organization go to Americanstroke.org

Office Space for RENT- Plaza / Westport

2011-05-14T15:03:00.000-07:00

Full Size Kitchen with Concrete CounterTops

 Overview:
We are a group of clinical professionals looking to invite other practitioners to share our expanded and remodeled office. We welcome other psychotherapists, but we are actively looking to recruit a psychiatrist, chiropractor, massage therapist, nurse practitioner, or physical therapist to complement our client services. We would also entertain other professionals.

Lobby Seats 8, Beverage Service & Panel TV for client education

The Basics:

Share contemporary, designer, loft-like, office space with exposed 9’ceilings, concrete floors, artwork, soothing lobby environment, music & fountain, restroom and shower. Access to conference/group room & full kitchen, wifi, & beverage service.

Private Toilet & Shower

Our Motto: 

We believe that our client services are enhanced through collaborative care and look to create a cooperative of health care professionals dedicated to holistic wellness services.

The Area:
Beautiful Plaza / Westport within walking distance to area coffee houses, boutique shops, restaurants, grocery stores and walking park at JC Nichols Fountain. Easy access to I35 and 71hwy. Close to KU/ UMKC.

 The Rooms:

Offices with Large Windows, Stained Concrete Floors & 9' Exposed Ceilings

*We also have a shared ‘Rent by the Block’ system for those with limited practices.

You:
Ideal colleague is an established or ‘newly in private practice’ entrepreneur looking to enjoy the benefits of a collaborative practice setting for referrals, case consultation, business support and growth. Finally, a candidate must be financially responsible.

Conference Room has phone & panel TV.
Seats 8 with Rustic Farm Table & Modern Leather Chairs & Contemporary Chandelier

US:
We are a group of independent practitioners; we routinely meet to support one another’s businesses both clinically and strategically.

Tours: FREE tours arranged by request... so whatya got to loose. This is a MUST see!

Lobby Beverage Service includes Coffee, Tea & Water.
Soothing sound is provided in all common areas

You may check us out at:

http://www.turnerprofessionalgroup.com/

For more information, please call George at 816.931.8255

Includes

§ Furnished Lobby

§ Wifi Internet

§ Parking… Private dedicated parking for building

§ Webpage Listing with picture/ bio (After initial set up fee)

§ Beverage Service (Coffee, Tea, Water, Cups)

§ Kleenex

§ Office Aesthetics (Aroma Therapy & Music)

§ Use of library, Group Room, Kitchen

§ Collegial Networking

Furnished & Unfurnished Offices Available

Full Time & PT office available

 

Conference room with 2 Garage Doors -
Opens for Workshops providing access to Full Kitchen

Benefits: 

§ No out of pocket office set up expense (furniture, decorations)

§ Furnished Wait Room

§ Flat Rate –– No %

§ Simple & Stable short-term contract for 12 months

§ No typical long term (3 & 5) year contract

George Turner, L.S.C.S.W./L.C.S.W.

Turner Professional Group
4010 Washington, Suite 405
Kansas City, MO. 64111
816.931.8255

Rooms are a generous size approx. 13x13. One is furnished

Meditation Video

2011-05-10T20:33:00.000-07:00

Changing Your Life Through Meditation

2011-05-10T20:08:00.001-07:00

Lube 101

2011-02-26T11:39:00.000-08:00

Many women experience vaginal dryness, especially as they age. It can take women longer to become moist, causing sexual play to be uncomfortable or painful. Men also can benefit from the sensations offered from a lube. A favorite lube on the nightstand can help make sex play a little more enjoyable.

According to the CENTER FOR SEXUAL HEALTH at the University of Michigan, " adequate lubrication is an important part of positive sexual interaction." While the most readily accessible lubricant is human saliva, some people find that they need the aid of commercially available lube. It is important to note that some lubes have 'glycerin', which has been shown to increase the production of yeast and irritation in the vagina for some women. NOT FUN!!!

The wonderful world of lubes has a vast array of types and purposes. Water-based lubes are for use with condoms, since oil based lubes will cause tears....Oppps! However, water based lubes can dry out very quickly. For longer sex play you may want to try silicone lubes. But remember, DONT mix silicone lubes with silicone sex toys, it can cause the silicone in sex toys to deteriorate. Bummer! Theres lube specifcally for anal play, sex toys, personal masturbation and penis/ vagina intercourse So make it a mission ...a sexual adventure to try them all.

For a $7 Off Coupon for K-Y premimum products visit Couples Place by K-Y Brand.

Sex Facts: Your Sexual Health Consultant Takes On Common Questions

2011-02-16T11:50:00.000-08:00

Unfortunately, most of us got little sex education as youth and the bit we got wasn't all that good! Some of the lucky got a booklet or gym class film explaining "Plumbing 101" which left us with a multitude of more questions. And lets face it, porn hasnt been the best sex education substitute. Yet, thats what the average couple uses to build their sexual lives together.
We spend more time, preparing for a hobby or researching how to stain the deck, than we do on making ourselves sexual experts. Some figure it should just be "natural" or they subscribe to the 'on-the-job training' philosophy, but thats a weak orientation at best.
There are a lot of sexual myths out there and a whole lot of just erroneous information. Our sexual experts help with providing comprehensive, medically accurate information to our patients. We are lucky to have skilled sexologists with a rich history of working with diverse groups.
Our team of sexual health experts report that its amazing how adults, when provided knowledgeable sex educators, will begin to review, adjust and evaluate a lifetime of bad sex education. Many report that having someone to consult with gave them a better sense of who they were as a sexual person and control over their sex lives.
Do you want to be a better lover? Do you need solid sex information? Do you have questions, about your sexuality? We provide our clients resources, and access to leaders in the field.

Some common questions we get asked:

1. When is it normal to lose your virginity?

The average male loses his virginity at age 16.9; females average slightly older, at 17.4. And a new study shows that genetics may be a factor: inherited traits, such as impulsivity, can make a person more or less willing to have sex at an earlier age.

Sources: Kinsey Institute; California State University

2. How can I reach orgasm every time?

While 75 percent of men always reach orgasm during sex, only 29 percent of women report the same. In addition, most women are unable to climax through vaginal intercourse, instead needing clitoral stimulation.

Source: National Health and Social Life Survey

3. How many sex partners is too many?

What's your number? According to a survey of adults aged 20 to 59, women have an average of four sex partners during their lifetime; men have an average of seven.

Source: National Center for Health Statistics

4. Do I really need to worry about an STI if Im in a relationship?

At least 50 percent of sexually active men and women will have a genital HPV infection at some point in their lives. HPV, or human papillomavirus, comes in both low- and high-risk forms; low-risk HPV can cause genital warts, and high-risk can cause cervical and other cancers. In 90 percent of cases, the body's immune system will fight off the disease within two years.

Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

5. Does size matter?

Relax, guys. No matter what those, ahem, movies might suggest, in the United States, the average erect penis is five to seven inches long, and four to six inches in circumference.

Source: Kinsey Institute

6. How come I cant keep it hard?

Approximately 5 percent of 40-year-old men and between 15 to 25 percent of 65-year-old men experience erectile dysfunction.

Source: National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases

From Fizzle to FABULOUS: Sex therapy can be just the ticket!

2011-02-15T10:00:00.000-08:00

Couples will often ask, "just how important is sex?" and my standard reply is, "not very...UNLESS your're not getting any! Then it can be really sticky thorn in your relationship" Our physical and emotional intimacy needs are important and need to be nurtured for a healthy relationship to flourish. Yet, there are many challenges to a healthy sex life.

Couples come into our office often complaining that their sex life has fizzled. Better sex is possible and we have the answers! Theres some great ways to bring the romance back to the bedroom and therapy can be the first step. Just initiating the conversation can be a scarry obstacle. A trained sex therapist can help you navigate the challenges of a sometimes embarrassing conversation. For some 'self help' tips try these ideas:

1) Love Nest Make Over: Keep the bedroom sexy and free from clutter. Piles of clothes are not just a "to do" list, but are a Romance Turn OFF! The bedroom should be a sanctuary for relaxation, sharing, safety and sassiness. PS... get rid of the TV!!!

2) Hug to relax and reconnect. This simple act can really be the bridge for a couple to bond after a hectic day. We need physical touch and hugging is a simple 'no sex demand' activity that allows couples to reaffirm there union. A 3 minute hug can be powerful... Try it!

For more tips and a great 10 day "Boot Camp" guide check out the intimacy experiement and see how you and your snuggle bunny do. There's some great tips to try on your own.

Make an ordinary card... Exceptional with Love Quotes

2011-02-14T10:03:00.000-08:00

We've collected some of our favorite 'Love Messages' from the best poets, romantics and authors on affairs of the heart. So take that ordinary drug store card and kick it up a notch with some classic musings.

Have a Happy Valentines Day!!!

"Everything that I understand, I understand only because I love." — Leo Tolstoy

"We are most alive when we're in love." — John Updike

"We can only learn to love by loving." — Iris Murdoch

"Love is everything it's cracked up to be … It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for." — Erica Jong

"In true love it is the soul that envelops the body." — Friedrich Nietzsche

"We love because it's the only true adventure." — Nikki Giovanni

"'Till I loved I never lived—Enough." — Emily Dickinson

"The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved." — Victor Hugo

"I have found that to love and be loved is the most empowering and exhilarating of all human emotions." — Jane Goodall

"Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone—we find it with another." — Thomas Merton

"Love is a taste of paradise." — Sholem Aleichem

"We are told that people stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck. But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness." — Ellen Goodman

"Even when love isn't enough…somehow it is." — Stephen King

"If you have only one smile in you, give it to the people you love." — Maya Angelou

Great Last Minute Valentine Gift Ideas

2011-02-13T13:58:00.000-08:00

1. Chocolate Lovers Delight: What's the one thing better than receiving a heart-shaped box of chocolates on V-day from your loved one? Getting that box once a month all year long, of course! You and your sweetie can taste concoctions from a vast range of international chocolatiers, delivered to your door for only $30.95 USD per month (plus S&H).

2. Romantic Movie: Get cozy on the sofa for a romatic movie night. From the charming Colin Firth as Mr. Darcy in the BBC's adaptation of Jane Austin's classic "Pride and Prejudice" to Ryan Gosling's swoon-worthy romantic gestures in "The Notebook," what better way to curl up with your sweetheart on the 14th than with a timeless romance on DVD? Order as soon as possibly for overnight delivery from Amazon!

3. Creative Memory Maker: Take a collection of your favorite photos from your phone or camera that you havent had time to print. Go onto your photo gallery and colorize them in fun colors. Go to your local drug store and print. Then place in matching frames for a unique and whimsical gift.

4. Dress up the bedroom: Dress up the bedroom and buy a new set of luxurious sheets 600-thread count Egyptian cotton. Set a bouquet of flowers next to the bed, and decorate with candles and rose petals. You'll enjoy the ambiance on February 14th, but you'll also get to enjoy those sheets for a long time to come.

5. Couple Make Over: Find a hair salon, like Rio Salon in Parkville, that goes that extra step to pamper you. Michelle gives a great scalp massage that I highly recommend. Ask her for tips so you can replicate that special feeling at home for each other. Go in for a double make over and get a cut and color together. The big reveal can be really fun.

BEST cheap Valentine Ideas

2011-02-11T07:41:00.000-08:00

And the winners are:

3. Playing like a kid with your sweetheart can be energizing and romantic. So stop into your neighborhood store and grab two inexpensive plastic sleds, head over to QuickTrip for some cocoa to go (Dont forget to get a little adult beverage to spice up the toasty treat) and find your local sledding hill. Suicide Hill (55th & Brookside Ave) in Brookside is my favorite. Have FUN!!!

2. Romance is going to the dogs... Our four legged friends can be a powerful love potion. Dont got a dog.... borrow your neighbors (Trust me after months indoors the dogs and your neighbors will be thankful). Take your new canine friend and your sweetheart to the nearby dog park (Our favorite is the one at Penn Valley Park). The dogs run free in an enclosure while you get to laugh and giggle at their antics. Sit back and enjoy the FREE show or romp around with your sweetie and "Rover". For added fun, take "Fido" to the self-serve bath and pamper him with a shampoo before returning him to his owner. Activities like this can be a great memory and bonding moment for you and your Valentines.

1. Drum roll...........our #1 cheap date idea: Porn or erotica can be a great tool to spice up a night. Visually stimulating its novelity can get the fire roaring as well as provide fuel for future fantasies. Whats better than porn... FREE PORN! Check out this great offer. This Valentine’s Day the entire HotMovies.com network will be totally free from 4pm-6pm EST!! What an awesome gift, right?!? Our sex educator, Lisa Schulze, really delivered on this fab idea!!!

Cheap Dates

2011-02-07T17:47:00.000-08:00

Love is in the air but times are tough ...cash is tight so how can you show your'e snuggle bunny that you care while saving a penny or two. Heres our list of fun cheap dates.
1. Bowl your honey over at the local bowling alley. Go on a "rockin' disco night" for added nostalgia and fun. Put your favorite pet names up on the board for a lil' PDA.

2. Do a 'happy hour' meal deal. Lots of restuarants have deals earlier in the evening or on slower nights during the week. So call ahead and ask. Sign up for restuarant deals at sites like Muncharoo.com or groupon.com

3. Can you say..."Dive Bar"! Its not a dive bar if it doesnt have cheap drinks. Make a game and try to hit three new dive bars that you've never been to. Challenge your sweetie to darts or pool (another dive bar requirement). The looser pays for the juke box.

4. Top Chef It. Search new receipes on the internet, buy a bottle of wine and let your inner Julia Child out as you prepare a meal together.

5. Get some culture... Visit the Crossroads or the Nelson and discuss art. But it's a lot of fun just to people watch too.

6. Get some class... Enroll in a class through Communiversity or you local community center. Lots of fun and new horizons for cheap. Kite making anyone?

7. Be civic and volunteer together. Help out at your local school, or visit a nursing home.

8. Pick each other's favorite hobby and spend some time teaching each other the finer points of your interest.

9. Visit your local library to rent you next movie for a fraction of the cost. Make a bucket list of the 'classics' and spend the weekend with some popcorn, cocoa and all your favorite romantic movies. Visit our website for a list of suggested titles under resources.

10. Visit your local coffee shop for open mic night, sneak in a flask to make the coffee a lil more 'adult beverage-like'. Enjoy!

Doctors of Sex: George Turner & Lisa Meyers Reach for the Top Pursuing PhD specializing in Human Sexuality

2011-02-04T17:00:00.000-08:00

George was recently interviewed by Widener Magazine, highlighting his pursuit of a PhD in Education focusing on Human Sexuality. George and Lisa are completing their doctoral training at Widener University (outside Philadelphia) the premier academic training ground for sexologist. George is currently working on his dissertation and is expected to graduate with his PhD in Dec. 2011. Lisa has begun her 2nd year in the program. The human sexuality program at Widener is an exceptional training ground for clinicians interested in sex education, sex therapy, as well as consultation in curriculum and policy development.

Loft-Like Office Space Available - Plaza & Westport

2011-02-01T14:17:00.000-08:00

Furniture Included Office Space

Overview:

We are a group of clinical professionals looking to invite other practitioners to share our expanded and remodeled office. We welcome other psychotherapists, but we are actively looking to recruit a psychiatrist, chiropractor, massage therapist, nurse practitioner, or physical therapist to complement our client services. We would also entertain other professionals.

The Basics:

Share contemporary, designer, loft-like, office space with concrete floors, artwork, soothing lobby environment, music & fountain, restroom and shower. Access to conference/group room & full kitchen.

Our Motto:

We believe that our client services are enhanced through collaborative care and look to create a cooperative of health care professionals dedicated to holistic wellness services.

Spa-Like office space for rent

The Rooms:
Rooms are a generous size

$600 includes all utilities, and WiFi. , $700 includes above PLUS furnished room.

*We also have a shared ‘Rent by the Hour’ system for those with limited practices.

You: Ideal colleague is an established or ‘newly in private practice’ entrepreneur looking to enjoy the benefits of a collaborative practice setting for referrals, case consultation, business support and growth. Finally, a candidate must be financially responsible.

US: We are a group of independent practitioners; we routinely meet to support one another’s businesses both clinically and strategically.

Tours: FREE tours arranged by request... so whatya got to loose. This is a MUST see!

You may check us out at: www.turnerprofessionalgroup.com

For more information, please call George at 816.931.8255

Our Waiting Room

Includes

Furnished Office and Lobby
Internet
Webpage with picture/ bio Listing (After initial set up fee)
Beverage Service (Coffee, Water, Cups)
Kleenex
Office Aesthetics (Aroma Therapy & Music)
Use of library, Group Room, Kitchen
Collegial Networking

Benefits:

No out of pocket office set up expense (furniture, decorations, computer)
Furnished Wait Room
Flat Rate –– No %
Simple & Stable short-term contract for 12 months
No typical long term (3 & 5) year contract

New TPG Office: Garage Doors and Conference Table

2011-01-24T13:34:00.000-08:00

Two garage doors flank a traditional 9' glass door
allowing for space to open up and double size for workshops and kitchen usage across hall

Garage Door allows light into adjacent Kitchen

Custom "Reclaimed Wood" Conference Table

It Gets Better

2011-01-21T08:32:00.000-08:00

The anit-bullying campaign, It Gets Better, has shared some phenomenol videos in an effort to end youth violence and create a safe environment for all youth. I encourage every adult, but especially parents and teachers, to review these messages for your own 'teachable moment' for your kids.

Adults MUST address bullying and create a safe environment. Take the lead. Help a kid. They'll be thankful!

Sexually Smarter: A Little Anal Retentive How the Far Right Tried to Rebrand a Conversation about Sex Education

2011-01-20T15:15:00.000-08:00

Medically accurate, age appropriate, comprehensive sex education based on Dr. Dennis Dailey's Circles Model teaches from a holistic approach. It is based in the premise that our sexuality is a positive and healthy aspect of our life. Bill Taverner continues to be one of the most well-spoken sex educators out there reaching his audience with wisdom and humor. With a bit of panache, Bill addresses an attack by anti-comprehensive sex education folks in his recent blog... Sexually Smarter: A Little Anal Retentive How the Far Right Tried to Rebrand a Conversation about Sex Education

Jamie Lee- A PFlag Angel

2011-01-15T12:48:00.000-08:00

PFLAG, Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays has a strong history of advocacy and support. Just when parents or those questioning their sexual orientation feel that they have no where to turn, its a smiling face or a warm embrace from a PFLAG member that can be the turning point to healing. As a clinician, I often recommend patients who need support attend a local meeting. They have resources to read, supportive members to chat with and educational programs. Coming out is a L-O-N-G journey and its nice to have good friends with words of encouragement on the way. PFLAG-KC general meetings are held on the second Sunday of each month at 3:00 pm at The Village Presbyterian Church, 6641 Mission Road, Room 307, Prairie Village, KS. (The meeting room is wheelchair accessible.) For more info visit: http://www.pflagkc.org/ or call the help line at (816) 765-9818 or write
PFLAG-KC
P.O. BOX 414101
KANSAS CITY, MO 64141-4101

Jamie Lee, PFLAG

Montgomery woman heads gay and lesbian support group PFLAG

Jamie Lee is a true PFLAG angel. She has taken her infectious spirit to Texas and continues to reach out with warmth, understanding and compassion. KC's loss is Texas's gain. Read Jamie's Story's

Online Dating Tips

2010-11-09T07:46:00.000-08:00

Recently an online dating site, Okcupid, researched peoples profile pix. They found some interesting things that might help you in your search for romance. First, smiling didnt matter in the pix and neither did a closeup head shot. People high up on a mountain top surrounded by lots of scenery got lots of hits too. The #1 factor that increased hits: "Conversation-ability"... an interesting photo that sparked interest in you! So you and your bike or you in your favorite party dress with a quirky smile sitting in your living room. The simple hint... be interesting!
Specifically for the gals:
1) Be flirtatious in the photo. Eyes, eyes and more eyes!
2) Look into the camera. Guys want to think you are connecting with them
3) Avoid harsh flash. It adds years to your age and washes you out.
Specifically for the guys:
1) Dont look into the camera. It makes you look like a stalker and ladies get creeped out when you stare at them at the bar too!
2) Puppy Power! Gals responded to guys showing their personal side (i.e. Interesting), so borrow a dog!
3) No dog... show the Abs. I know, I know... Im just reporting what they found, but they say Ab shots got lots of hits.
Finally, update your pix frequently and dont be afraid to initiate the asking. Sometimes dating can be a numbers game. You cant win if you dont play! I once told a friend who was 'trying to get a date' that the only trying that she was doing was hoping that the Pizza delivery guy was a prospect. You gotta get out there, diversify where you meet people and cast a wide net. Remember dating is about having fun and learning about perspective romantic partners, but dont take it personally if there wasnt a connection. Enjoy the journey!

Exciting New Sex Study

2010-11-04T10:19:00.000-07:00

Welcome to our very first post! We hope you enjoy the information and pass along the resource to your friends and colleageus.

An exciting new sex study recently came out in the Journal of Sexual Medicine (2010) revealing interesting facts on our sexual behaviors. Check out the highlights at Dr. Oz and learn more about bridging the orgasm differences for men and women. Remember not every Big "O" is all that big and thats okay, and rarely do we simultaneously reach our destinations. Men and women are wired differently, so learn to enjoy the journey.